Surgery was successful, and all went perfectly.
They had a hard time stabilizing my moms pain control, but they now have her on Morphine every 6 minutes to help the pain.
Now the rant.
I never write about my sister because she is a waste of fucking air. I know this seems harsh, but honestly, when nothing benefits her, she's as reliable as a snail.
The only thing I begged of her was to watch my girls so I could be at the hospital, learning how to support my mother when she is discharged and recovering at home. This means getting her in and out fo bed, bathed, dressed, up and down stairs, in and out of chairs, etc. I have not asked her once to help with prescription costs, or costs of the rental equipment that she needs in place here at home she she can be home safely. I have even gone as far as to give her some money to do things with my girls through the day so that they are occupied, and not staring into a tv all day.
She watched them yesterday while my mom was in surgery. Ya fucking hoo.
She swore to me, promised me on my mothers recovery that she would be here by 8:30 am so i could be at the hospital for 9am to meet with my physiotherapist to start learning how to do things.
She hasn't shown up.
Go figure.
Now, I need to find babysitting arrangments for my kids until Monday when my mother is discharged.
She's fucked with the wrong person.
Her days of being a blood sucker to me and my mother are OVER.
I mean, honestly, is it so wrong of me to expect her to hold up to her agreement to be here on time when I am doing everything else on my own?
Stressed out. Exhausted.
Nothing I can do though.
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Oh damn -- I'm sorry kiddo... that sucks that you can't rely on her especially at a time like this.
**BIG hugs**
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